What would you say to the girl who was mean to you?
Dear Readers,
I'm overwhelmed with the number of comments who participated in my previous post, Why are girls mean to other girls. I'm not perfect. I've been mean myself but only when I think that I'm being treated unfairly. I also tend to be mean on girls who pick on my friends. I'm not easily scared to face anyone who says bad things about me. If you only know the things I was capable of back in high school, you'd be surprise. Hehehe!
But I've been thinking lately how come its so easy to hate other girls.. how come snide words and comments are so easy to roll off of our tongues? And often that not... we are victims of those snide words and comments.
Shouldn't we all stick together?
If you've been victimized by the "mean" girls, what would you say to her or to them? Would you say something mean as well? Or would you rather say something different?
Find release from oppression on this post. Say what you feel you need to be said... Good or bad, I will try to approve them all. Anonymity is encouraged but not required. :)
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But I've been thinking lately how come its so easy to hate other girls.. how come snide words and comments are so easy to roll off of our tongues? And often that not... we are victims of those snide words and comments.
Shouldn't we all stick together?
If you've been victimized by the "mean" girls, what would you say to her or to them? Would you say something mean as well? Or would you rather say something different?
Find release from oppression on this post. Say what you feel you need to be said... Good or bad, I will try to approve them all. Anonymity is encouraged but not required. :)
Share them on the comments below!!
much love,
Shen
3 comments
what would i say?
ReplyDeletehmmm, personally i havent had any girls mean to me but if ever, I'd say..
"whatever!" and show her the hand...
or silent treatment and doing the things she hates the most bout u (or envies) ;)
I may not look it (because my sister says I'm more mataray looking) but I was always a target for mean girls. Kahit wala pa akong ginagawa, galit na sila sakin. They probably hate the way I speak, the way I dress etc. Maybe nayayabangan sila kasi I sound arrogant...I never confronted back. Lagi ako silent pag inaaway. Until my sister got so pikon for me (there was one woman who was so mean, she was handing out leaflets against me na), she told me, "You better tell that woman to stop. I don't care if she's one of my teachers. Papatulan ko yan."
ReplyDeleteEh kesa ma-kick out yung kapatid ko (college pa siya noon), I went out of my hiding place and faced the hag head on. She stopped being mean to other people a few incidents after that.
I don't get myself affected. I will try to be-friend them, but if they resist, then I won't push and will just do the things I have been doing before I encountered them..
ReplyDeleteI would love to hear from you!